Youngest gay experience

I (male) had my first gay experience when I was around 12 years old. It was with a friend (also male and around the same age) and went on for two or three years. Discussion in ' Chit Chat ' started by chrisJ , Aug 30, Empty Closets. Learn More.

NOW I am a 17 year old guy and have not yet had my first gay experience. I have been with maanny women though. I've tried to get at guys that i know, and think are into guys too, but always get turned down because they are straight. I have to watch who I try to get with because i am still in the closet. I'm a middle-aged man who has been married twice and widowed. I'm also a father to two grown children. And I'm gay.

I remember my first time in a gay club so well, not because of the beautiful bar back whose name I cannot even recall. Not because I realized there is so much more gay life out there than my cloistered, short life had led me to believe. Meanwhile, I had just turned 18 and found my way into a Christian ministry that told me my homosexuality needed to be cured. My experiences were not as traumatic, dramatic, or physically abusive as what others have gone through. But yesterday, I was invited to speak with a small group of Christian leaders from different continents who were forming guidelines for the Anglican denomination.

Years later, I discovered my mother had already suspected I was gay. Whereas boys my age were going out to drink alcohol and date girls, my Saturday evening treat was the snacks (including a small trifle from Marks & Spencer) and Saturday evening television. Do you remember your first time? Your first experience with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?